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In today’s lesson, we delve into the crucial difference between maturity and manliness. Our society often polarizes these concepts, but understanding their true essence is vital for men, especially those striving to be men of God.

What is True Manhood?

Society’s View on Manliness

In today’s world, manliness is often either celebrated to an extreme or criticized as toxic. Some view traditional male attributes as inherently sexist or misogynistic, while others overcompensate by immersing themselves in stereotypical “manly” activities like drinking beer, building muscles, and engaging in outdoor pursuits. While there’s nothing wrong with these activities, defining oneself solely by them misses a critical aspect of being a man: maturity.

The Biblical Perspective

God calls us to put away childish things and embrace maturity. As we grow older, take on careers, get married, and start families, maturity becomes essential. Unfortunately, many men shy away from maturity, immersing themselves in manly tasks to cope with life’s stresses. This behavior often leads to the perception of masculinity as toxic. What both sides of this debate truly seek is maturity.

The Essence of Maturity

Selflessness and Humility

One of the key attributes of maturity is selflessness. Jesus taught us to deny ourselves and take up our cross. This means thinking of ourselves less and putting others first. It’s not about intermittent fasting or extreme self-denial but about consistently doing the right thing for others, even when it’s inconvenient.

Wisdom in Action

Wisdom is another hallmark of maturity. It’s not just about having knowledge but applying it in real-life situations. Mature men are those who have taken biblical principles, applied them, and seen their positive outcomes. They can step into situations with proven wisdom and lead others effectively.

Putting Others First

Mature men see themselves as providers and protectors, not just for their families but for their communities and churches. They are willing to stand up against cultural pressures and put the interests of others before their own. This selflessness is crucial in a world where young men are desperately seeking role models.

Steps to Elevate Maturity Over Manliness

Embrace Selflessness

Start by thinking of yourself less and others more. This doesn’t mean devaluing yourself but prioritizing the needs and well-being of those around you. Practice humility in your daily interactions and decisions.

Seek and Apply Wisdom

Pursue wisdom by studying the Bible and applying its teachings in your life. Seek out mentors who exhibit godly wisdom and learn from their experiences. Be a source of wisdom in your community, offering guidance and support to those in need.

Be a Provider and Protector

Take on the role of a provider and protector seriously. This means not only providing for your family but also standing up for what’s right in your community. Be a role model for younger men, showing them what it means to be a mature, godly man.

Life Application

Challenge for the Week

This week, focus on elevating maturity over manliness in your life. Reflect on areas where you may be prioritizing manly attributes over mature behavior. Make a conscious effort to practice selflessness, seek wisdom, and put others first.

Questions to Reflect On

1. In what areas of my life am I prioritizing manliness over maturity?

2. How can I practice selflessness in my daily interactions?

3. What steps can I take to seek and apply godly wisdom?

4. How can I be a better provider and protector for my family and community?

By focusing on these aspects, you will not only grow in maturity but also become a true man of God, embodying the attributes that make a lasting impact on those around you.

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